fix: verify SSH host keys, support ssh-agent, fix remote dir walk bugs

- Replace ssh.InsecureIgnoreHostKey() with TOFU verification against
  ~/.ssh/known_hosts (accept-new for unknown hosts, hard reject on a
  changed key) to close a MITM hole on every SFTP connection.
- Actually connect to a running ssh-agent (SSH_AUTH_SOCK) for auth
  instead of only scanning default key files on disk; give a clear
  error when an explicit IdentityFile is passphrase-protected.
- Fix SSHClient.walk()/DirectorySize: the internal filepathSkipDir
  sentinel leaked out as a real error on stat/ReadDir failures instead
  of being swallowed, aborting size calculation on the first
  unreadable subdirectory instead of skipping it.
- Skip symlink-to-directory entries in remote directory copies instead
  of failing the whole transfer trying to Open() them as regular files.
- Consolidate 5 duplicated sudo-aware home-dir lookups into
  internal/homedir, adding a missing os.Geteuid()==0 check before
  trusting SUDO_USER.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

go.mod

@@ -4,18 +4,20 @@ go 1.26.0
 
 require (
 	github.com/alecthomas/chroma/v2 v2.23.1
+	github.com/atotto/clipboard v0.1.4
 	github.com/charmbracelet/bubbles v0.21.0
 	github.com/charmbracelet/bubbletea v1.3.10
 	github.com/charmbracelet/lipgloss v1.1.0
+	github.com/charmbracelet/x/ansi v0.10.1
 	github.com/pelletier/go-toml/v2 v2.2.4
+	github.com/pkg/sftp v1.13.10
+	golang.org/x/crypto v0.50.0
 	golang.org/x/sys v0.43.0
 )
 
 require (
-	github.com/atotto/clipboard v0.1.4 // indirect
 	github.com/aymanbagabas/go-osc52/v2 v2.0.1 // indirect
 	github.com/charmbracelet/colorprofile v0.2.3-0.20250311203215-f60798e515dc // indirect
-	github.com/charmbracelet/x/ansi v0.10.1 // indirect
 	github.com/charmbracelet/x/cellbuf v0.0.13-0.20250311204145-2c3ea96c31dd // indirect
 	github.com/charmbracelet/x/term v0.2.1 // indirect
 	github.com/dlclark/regexp2 v1.11.5 // indirect
@@ -28,9 +30,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/muesli/ansi v0.0.0-20230316100256-276c6243b2f6 // indirect
 	github.com/muesli/cancelreader v0.2.2 // indirect
 	github.com/muesli/termenv v0.16.0 // indirect
-	github.com/pkg/sftp v1.13.10 // indirect
 	github.com/rivo/uniseg v0.4.7 // indirect
 	github.com/xo/terminfo v0.0.0-20220910002029-abceb7e1c41e // indirect
-	golang.org/x/crypto v0.50.0 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/text v0.36.0 // indirect
 )